There will be times in your life where you’re challenged, where nothing seems to be going right, where tragedy strikes and you’re left to pick up the pieces.
Anyone can give up, it’s the easiest thing in the world to do. But to hold it together when everyone else would understand if you fell apart, that’s true strength.
In some cases, being strong is simply about being able to persevere through extreme adversity. It can be something horrific like the tragic loss of a loved one, or something difficult and trying like getting laid off. It can also be emotional trauma, like recovering from a divorce or a tough break up Or a long illnesses
These experiences leave us feeling weak and hopeless. But that’s no reason to stay down for long. No matter what you’re going through in life, other people just like you have gone through the same or worse and come out stronger on the other side. It’s times like these you need to be strong and never give up .
Life will break you. Nobody can protect you from that, and living alone won’t either, for solitude will also break you with its yearning. You have to love. You have to feel. It is the reason you are here on earth. You are here to risk your heart. You are here to be swallowed up. And when it happens that you are broke, hurt, have health issues, feeling lonely, think of those small children who left in orphanages by their own People/Parents, also think of those Elderly people staying in old age homes, one must feel content & lucky to have a Family and their loved ones by there side. We must Thank God for giving us this life.
No one will manufacture a lock without a key. Similarly. God won't give Problems without Solutions,So never Worry. Efforts always Succeed.......
Being strong isn’t just about being able to get through tragedy, its also about preparing yourself – both physically and mentally – for the tests that life will put us through. Its about developing the emotional and mental toughness that will allow us to not only get through tragedy and overcome pain ourselves – but allow us to be a beacon of strength for others.
The reason most people never achieve their dreams is because they simply give up. Life was never meant to be easy – its a constant struggle, with extreme lows and extreme highs. Remember that the times when its most important to persevere are the times that you will be most tested.
Many times, the only way to improve our lives is to force ourselves to undergo difficult change. That might mean breaking up and leaving a stale – but comfortable – relationship, leaving a mediocre – but stable – job, moving away from a nice – but uninspiring – location, or anything else that’s holding us back from accomplishing our dreams.
The past cannot be changed, forgotten, or erased. However, the lessons learned can prepare you for a brighter future.
“I think so many times we let our past dictate our future. It not only hurts our life, but it hurts the good people who want to become apart of it, too.
Of course, dealing with uninvited change in our lives is often difficult and painful. In many cases, instigating major, but necessary, change in our life can be just as painful. But whatever change you’re dealing with, know that how you cope with that change will have an impact on your future.
True strength is keeping everything together when everyone expects you to fall apart.
As someone says Nothing is impossible, the word itself says ‘I’m possible’!”
Forget all the reasons it won’t work and believe the one reason that it will.” -
When you say “It’s hard”, it actually means “I’m not strong enough to fight for it”. Stop saying its hard. Think positive!”
Sharing a few positive n inspiring thoughts which are always giving me strength when ever I feel low .
1)“Life is like photography. You need the negatives to develop.
If one Negative Photo can Create Unlimited numbers of Positive Prints. Why don't we look at our Negative Experience in Life & Have Something Positive Out of it:)
2)We are like tea bags, whose true strength comes out when we are put in hot water, so when problems upset you. just stop & think... You must be God's Favorite cup of Tea :)
3)Where you are in life is temporary; where you end up in life is permanent; how you get from here to there is entirely up to you. Never give up!”
4)“A beautiful day begins with a beautiful mindset. When you wake up take a second to think about what a privilege it is to simply be alive and healthy. The moment you start acting like life is a blessing, I assure you that it will start to feel like one. Time spent living is time worth appreciating.”
5) "Always find a reason to laugh. It may not add years to your life but will surely add life to your years.”
Keep your heart open, your head high and your spirit free. Embrace your darkness along with your light. Be wrong every once in a while, and don’t be afraid to admit it. Awaken to the brilliance in ordinary moments. Tell the truth about youself no matter what the cost. Own your reality without apology. See goodness in the world. Be Bold. Be Fierce. Be grateful. Be wild, crazy and gloriously free. Be you! Go now and live.
Written by
Madhu Anand Chandhock
