Where has Humanity come to ?

Jisha, a 29-year-old law student at the Government Law College, Ernakulam, was found murdered on April 28, 2016. She was raped and murdered at her house between 2 p.m. and 5 p.m

Jisha had a severe head injury and wounds were found on her chest and face. Jisha’s vagina was slashed over 20 times and her intestines and abdominal organs were pulled out. To ensure her death, her rapist/rapists smothered her. It is assumed that the house was broken into and a fight ensued between Jisha and her rapist.

Where are we heading towards? 


Do we really live in a civilized society? Do we have a minimum level of humanity left within ourselves? We should seriously think about it now.... We are so busy reading the news of celebrity marriage, elections, cricket matches etc ... We are celebrating / highlighting our achievements.. We are not even bothered that we are loosing our very basic human qualities day by day.. We should be ashamed of ourselves... It's just high time !!!!

I don't know why can't we put strict rules in our country, Nirbhaya case became sensational in our country on that time media and politicians became very revolutionary after few months everything fizzled out we were back to normal.
Only at the time of incident they react, later they don't have time to even think about the prevention, so sad... Punishment has to be severe to those guys who commit a hideous crime Such as Rape, these guys  have to suffer through out their lives...


This is nothing but cruelty! Cruelty shown by our Indian Government towards women. If they do something terrifying to one rapist and MAKE SURE that the public is aware of what they do to such an animal, the other guys who even think of a woman in a dirty way will be scared. But all they focus on is elections, how to win votes and how to loot the nation. Such a shame! At the most the rapists get life imprisonment or death sentecne. If it is a death sentence, there is another case filed and then it drags on to become life sentence. By that time the guy also applies for bail and is then let out to roam freely as they please. 
It took 5 years for the judiciary to  give judgement for those two brothers who gave their lives to defent their women friends who were harassed. That's the kind of country we live in. There are many more cases where the victim remains silent because of our wonderful society's branding. If there is going to be no immediate action from the government even after this I am sorry to say, none of our sympathies are going to have effect, because evidently, no one cares! 

I don't care what people think, but personally I feel there is no future for women in our country. Why would any human being be in a place where you are neither given respect, nor security or anything that supports you? It is best that we leave and never come back instead of facing and seing out fellow sisters suffer. Change? our country should have changed when nirbhaya happened. and yet here is India who has lost another precious daughter to the brutal filthy animal-like sons she bore.


Justice needed

What the hell is happening to this country.
This could happen to anyone, please be safe.
We are living among Wolfe's.


Female's life is pathetic... 
Always parents have to ensure safety of girl's... Worst is even kids are not spared whether it's a gal or boy... This will continue.. Till strict laws are not passed by government...but again human rights.. To give another chance to accused... Have they ever thought of giving  chance to victims... It should be stopped for a change... And give try to strict laws... Things will change

This is something which should get the priority by our lawmakers and judicial system n so also media n society as a whole.No human should be subjected to such barbaric violence and no culprit to be spared!

India is called itself Bharat Mata .and yet every day one child ,one women gets rape everyday because we as a society have failed to bring up our boy to respect a women.

All the young mothers should take it upon themselves to atleast make their son a sensitive human being....one who would know that women are to be respected.

A young life end so brutally . So sad.


Rapist just don't get the factor of fear before the brutal acts because of the very less probability of getting caught or being revealed by the victim as well the the punishment system of India...
according to ME.. the real factor of FEAR can be brought to them by changing the method of punishment when caught...i am talking about "PENECTOMY"(surgical amputation of penis)!!!...just once this is done to the RAPISTS and the news is spread over..i am sure the rapists who leave free as well as the people who even thinks of rape will MISS A HEART BEAT !!!!! and this can bring a FALL on the INCREASING graph of INDIA'S RAPE .

Written by 
Madhu Anand Chandhock
madhuc24@yahoo.com

Where has Humanity come to?

Few days back I read this n shocked to know about this Arabic Rape game TAHARTUSH.

Taharrush is an example of an inhuman and neanderthal act of violence and sexual harassment against women that has devolved the human race and women's rights by a thousand years.

Having barely been reported by the media before last year, Taharrush has been practiced by middle-eastern men for over a decade, perhaps longer. The filthy game recently made news after a number of such incidents were reported in Germany this New Year's Eve

N now this new so called  Islamic Fatwa . that a Father can have lust for his daughter if she is 9 years old. This is so disgusting, shameful thought . Anybody following this is clearly an insane , an evil person. A Father should protect his daughter . There is no kind of affection so purely angelic as of a father to a daughter.

http://www.terrorscoop.com/new-islamic-fatwa-fathers-lust-daughter-not-sin-daughter-9-years-old/?utm_campaign=shareaholic&utm_medium=facebook&utm_source=socialnetwork

A woman is not an object. She is not something; she is someone. You treat a woman with respect. She is not your toy. She doesn't owe you anything just cause you are a man. When she come to you for comfort, you listen to her; you dont make a move on her. Grow up and start treating women how they deserve to be treated.

A woman brought you into this world therefore you have no right to disrespect her by making these type of Fatwa. How can some bunch of Islamic people  can make these type of statements on behalf of the entire Islam. Islam doesn't teach you this ( in fact no religion teaches you this ) . I think they should be put behind the bar for Maligning the reputation of Women n Islam.

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Madhu Anand Chandhock

madhuc24@yahoo.com

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Hope : Hold on pain ends 😀

Hope : Hold on pain ends 😀

Everyone have Their own definition of pain. Some see their loved ones going away, some see their dreams dying, whereas some never get an opportunity to distinguish between happiness and sorrows. 

Chronic Illnesses, unfortunately, there are so many wonderful people who are suffering and don't say anything, and it hurts. No one takes the time to really ask them how they feel & If they ever ask for namesakes then they Never bother to do anything about it. They are just expecting you to say "I'm fine"-- the lie we tell every single day of our lives.

Sometimes it’s better to be silent than to tell others as to what you feel. Because it hurts badly when you come to know that they can hear you but cannot understand. 

I have seen a young man in 40s on his death bed. And the pain he had was not that he was about to die, but the pain he had was the worries about what will happen to his wife and children after he is gone! 

That's the exact pain,I have seen in many people dying of small illness because they were too poor to spend a few thousands on their treatments.

What is Pain ?

Pain is :

*When a poor guy doesn't have food to eat ..

*When A poor lady has to sell her body for the survival of her family ...

*When a poor old man who loses his family ..

*When you think you are the only one who is suffering and forget what you have, I understand what you are going through and it is painful .. but you have what other folks don't have, Respect what you have and try to forget what you don't have or can't get !!

But defining pain doesn't do anything good. If you want to give meaning to your life, find the definition of happiness in your life, and try to get it. 

How to cope up with pain?

You know what truly hurts/aches? Having so much inside you and not having the slightest clue of how to pour it out.

But pain's like water. It finds a way to push through any seal. There's no way to stop it. Sometimes you have to let yourself sink inside of it before you can learn how to swim to the surface.

Crying is like a thundershower for the soul. The air feels so wonderful after the rain. Don’t think too much. Breathe. Don’t be harsh or demanding on yourself. Just experience your feelings and know that your tears are announcing change in your life. 

Change is coming; like a summer rain — to wash away your pain. Have faith that things are getting better.

"Whether you have a need that isn't being met, an old wound that's been reopened, a person in your life who is making you feel small, a painful memory of something from the past, or an emptiness from the loss of someone you care about..." ALL of these things would happen at the same time.

Maybe not giving up, just taking a little or a long break.... I guess every day is a battle over this question, and the answer is always "not today, you can handle a little more, just hold on.

3 simple ways to reduce ur pain 

1)Do some gentle exercise

Simple, everyday activity like walking, swimming, gardening and dancing can ease some of the pain directly by blocking pain signals to the brain.

2)Distract yourself

Shift your attention onto something else so the pain isn’t the only thing on your mind. Get stuck into an activity that you enjoy or find stimulating. Many hobbies, like photography, sewing or knitting, are possible even when your mobility is restricted.

3)Share your story about pain

It can help to talk to someone else who has experienced similar pain themselves and understands what you’re going through.

Just like how I am sharing my views and thoughts in order to better our fellow Human beings. Same way even you can touch Many people who are suffering from Pain. Help them and your will be helped too.

Written by 

Madhu Anand Chandhock 

madhuc24@yahoo.com

Don't allow others to take you for granted

Someone once said “Never take someone for granted, hold every person close to your heart because you might wake up one day and realize that you have lost true diamond while you were too busy collecting stones“.

Every once in a while we all are taken for granted. We might not notice and we might not care, especially when it is done by people close to us: family, friends. But when it happens on a regular basis it hurts badly.

Can you change it? Yes, you can.

Do you want to change it? That’s up to you.

Sometimes it is wise to let people take you for granted. Sometimes it is what you want or what you need. Sometimes it is even what you love. But then sometimes things you love turn into things that hurt you. Then a moment comes when you have to act.

How to know when you are being taken for granted?

1) You always are there to offer your help, yet when last time you were the one in need everyone you called up was busy.

2) Your friends won’t return any favor. Ever.

3) You listen to people’s problems but there is nobody to listen to yours.

4) Your efforts don’t get even a simple thanks.

5) No matter how much you contribute people always want you to do more. Extra pay? Some appreciation? You are funny, really!

6) You feel not cared enough for, not loved enough, ignored, neglected.

7) People assume you will always be there and each time you are not is taken as a personal offense.

8)You notice that people forget to tell you things that matter.

9)People don’t care what you do unless they need you to do something for them.

You said YES to more than 3 points in the list? That’s a warning sign. Maybe you should think about making yourself noticed and listened to.

What you can do about being taken for granted?

I) Do not panic and do not make assumptions

2) It might all have a very logical explanation. If you freak out and get mad for no reason it will make things only worse.

3) Talk about it

4) Don’t hold it in. But don’t sound accusing or blaming. Just talk. The relationships begin to die when we stop talking about things that matter.

5) Stop being nice all the time

6) You are human. You have emotions. You can get mad, you can be sad, you can be upset. If people know how you feel they won’t take it for granted.

7) Learn to say ‘no’

As hard as it seems it is still possible. Give it a try. Start with smaller things. People will take you for granted only as long as you let them. Saying ‘no’ is the first step on the road of not letting them do it.

Do not compromise with your self-respect

Ever. You are better than this.

Question your motives

Don’t expect praise and appreciation. You do things for yourself because you like helping people out, not because you want them to help you later. Or don’t you?

Treat people as you want to be treated

Old cliché, maybe, but it does work. Before blaming someone for taking you for granted, see if you do it the same way.

Stand your ground and draw boundaries

You are a good person. You are a good friend. You know that. They know that. Now it’s time to be strong for yourself.

When you say ‘no’ to someone the world won’t turn upside down. It will be at the exact same place. You should realize that whatever is meant to happen will happen. Good or bad.

You can’t run around giving people second and third chances. You can’t let them take advantage of you. You can’t be there for them always even when they let you down all the time.

Relationships are always worth fighting for but sometimes you can’t be the only one fighting. Sometimes, people need to fight for you.

Written by 

Madhu Anand Chandhock 

madhuc24@yahoo.com

http://madhu-bholi.blogspot.com

Operation Sankat Mochan, India is great.

On Thursday, 14 the July 2016,India launched Operation Sankat Mochan, a mission to rescue over 500 Indians stranded in South Sudan, a country witnessing heavy fighting between government soldiers and rebels.

On social media, it is being hailed as another superhuman rescue in the making, afterOperation Raahat last year, which was also commanded by Gen (Retd) Singh. The optics are perfectly in place – a retired Army Chief leading a daring rescue mission, to rescue stranded Indians from a strife-torn nation. 

After a week-long civil war claimed a large number of lives in Juba, capital of South Sudan, the Ministry of External Affairs has set in motion an airlift operation for hundred of Indian nationals who are stranded there.

Thanks to all those soldiers each n everyone for making operation SANKAT MOCHAN successful. We are proud of  all of them . We should thank not only Gen. V. K. Singh Sir but also to all the soldiers who have contributed in this evacuation.. Salute. Hats off to your effort. It's a incredible job . I can get proudly say that India is Great & fortunate to have leader like him.

Rescue operations had happened before but never had a minister flying personally with rescued people and taking it so personally. Well done. Never seen an effort of this scale, I must add.

May be there are  many problem in our country but when the question is about rescue INDIAN from any serious situation, our nation's real hero just reply through their effort "NO PROBLEM"...that's my INDIA.

Time has changed,  Indian Government values lives of it's countrymen working abroad more than before. 

Best part is it's leaders are leading from the front.

Great job Gen. V. K. Singh.

You deserve a big salute.

This proves again that where is will, there is way, salute...to general 

Don't forget contributions of Mrs sushama swaraj..

There are around 600 Indians in South Sudan, of them 450 are in Juba (capital city of South Sudan) and nearly 150 are outside Juba, Swaraj informed.

Written by 

Madhu Anand Chandhock 

madhuc24@yahoo.com

http://madhu-bholi.blogspot.com