Tuesday 19 May 2015

Sonali Mukherjee reception, blessings from Dhanbad MP Mr.P. N singh ji.


Finally acid victim Sonali Mukherjee life smiling on her. First court marriage with handsome Chitranjan Tiwari ,then Reception at J W Marriot hotel in Mumbai ,Organised by Anu Ranjan NGO Beti n then traditional wedding at Maa Chinnamasta Mandir ( Rajrappa) , arranged by her uncle, Ambuj Panda,n now one more reception at Dhanbad on 18 th May . 200 people came to bless the couple including Dhanbad MP Mr.P. N singh ji.  









Life is what we make it, always has been, always will be,You are so deserving this magical moment and a lifetime of happiness to follow! May love reign your lives forever!









My heart is filled with joy today to see both of them so happy and in love!  With marriage, comes new challenges and phases in life. But, with your sincere and honest love you shall sail through such obstacles. Enjoy every moment of your love life. May you two always stay together in love.You both are  Two souls with but a single thought, two hearts that beat as one. Cant stop giving lots of blessings to this awesome couple.








May this new start, bring all the joy and happiness in your life. May you always stay in love with each other. 
 Congratulations to the happy couple on their wedding day!

Saturday 16 May 2015

Aruna Shanbaug (Need to change law against Rapists)

A Woman who has never received justice, no other person in a similar position will have to suffer for more than four decades ,Aruna Shanbaug passes away. KEM rape case, 42 years in coma . . . . RIP





Aruna was planning to get married to a medic in the hospital.
On the night of 27 November 1973, Shanbaug was sexually assaulted by Sohanlal Bhartha Walmiki, a sweeper on contract at the King Edward Memorial Hospital.[4] Sohanlal attacked her while she was changing clothes in the hospital basement. He choked her with a dog chain and sodomized her. The asphyxiation cut off oxygen supply to her brain, resulting in brain stem contusion injury and cervical cord injury apart from leaving her cortically blind.

The police case was registered as a case of robbery and attempted murder on account of the concealment of anal rape by the doctors under the instructions of the Dean of KEM, Dr. Deshpande, perhaps to avoid the social rejection of the victim,and her impending marriage.
Sohanlal was caught and convicted, and served two concurrent seven-year sentences for assault and robbery, neither for rape or sexual molestation, nor for the "unnatural sexual offence" (which could have got him a ten-year sentence by itself)
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Rape’ the word itself sends across chills down the spine! Only a woman who has undergone such brutality understands the pain, dismay and disgrace that it beholds. 
Now, we all know that stricter laws against rapists is necessary but the question is "How effective will it prove to be?" 
It can be effective only and only if implemented properly. Lawbreakers have always found a way to evade punishment. They will find it again unless the law bodies see to it that the criminals are punished for their crime.


Having said so, it is also necessary to understand that there are many women and girls who are teased, assaulted and raped but they keep silent. They fear being, humiliated, blamed and finally expelled from the society. Due to this  women are often afraid to seek legal assistance on this matter. Instead they keep such matters under secrecy which often instigate the offenders to commit the same crime over and over again. So, introducing strict laws alone won't be good enough.


We need to start at the very roots. Education seems to be the only way out of this. If people are educated they would not consider women as inferior. They would rather treat them as their equals and start respecting them. Thus, they wouldn't even consider committing such a heinous crime.

Friday 8 May 2015

Live n Let Live Salman Khan


We all are human beings n do mistakes.  Salman khan also did but now he is a changed man  n a nice human being. He is paying of for his stardom now . I just want to ask all of you that why you are not raising your voices to ask punishment for so many rapists n  culprits who had spoiled so many girls lives by throwing acid on them.  I agree that Salman khan did mistakes but  we should also think of all the noble causes he had done in last  few years. By helping poor n needy through his organisation Being Human. He and his family are true genuine philanthropists. They are not out of their mind with criminal backgrounds n history. Salman khan made a mistake n he has learnt some hard lessons. I think we should let God judge him. Give me one name in India who does the magnitude of charity work the entire Khan family does in one day . The judicial system of India n the Govt is not going to feed the man's family who died and the injured who suffered.
Salman Khan is a role model for so many people but I think most of the people also want to forgive him . Even the family of the deceased doesn't want him to go jail. There are many such cases of hit n run which doesn't even come in public eyes, just because he is a celebrity, people want to drag him for everything n make the most out if it. 
By putting Salman khan behind bars won't solve the problem. He is not from that culture n space. We need to make grass root changes to uplift the poor hungry and uneducated people of this country.
I had written so many times about an acid victim Sonali Mukherjee n her story . But no one came forward to help her.  Her 3 culprits are still out n enjoying n the poor girl still suffering ,  Go man talk bout them. Get those 3 culprits who put acid on Sonali ,behind  bars .Let Salman live his life n let him  do his good karma ( which he is seriously doing from so many years) .


Tuesday 5 May 2015

Khoya Bachpan


Bachapan kaha kho Gaya gammo Ke dodh mein,
Hum kaha aa Gaye paisa kamane Ke hodh mein.

Kitne pyare they woh pal jab choti choti umeede thi,

Bouji ( my Dad) Ke Jeb Ke rejgari he meri saari poonji thi.






Dil nahi tab sirf khilone tuta karte they,
Ek pal jagadh duje he pal  dost Ke gale mila karte they ,


Barish Ke pani mein kagaj Ke kashti taira,  khud he dubo diya karte they,
Pao maar usi pani mein Apna aap  bhigoya karte they .







Ek aansu  bhi ab toh rusva kar jata hai,
Woh bachapan kitna  acha tha jab khul kar roya karte they .


Chalo phir se dhoond laye usi masoom bachapan ko,
Jaha gaam ka pata na tha,
Dukh Ke samajh na thi
Jaha sirf muskarahate thi,
Charo aur baharrein thi,


Jaha duniya ka har chehra ,Saccha he lagta tha,
Maa Ke aanchal mein chup ,Har dukh se chutkara Milta tha .